You really have to know when enough in enough I think that is the key. You have to have just enough staying power and just enough common sense to know when a relationship or commitment in your life is over, you slowly pick up the pieces and move on to better things. It can be very simple though, it’s probably never going to be easy to go through. No one likes to hear something they’ve invested time in is over. It can be unnerving, you doubt your decisions, lose sight of where you are headed. But heres something you can remember: the things we do that we cannot explain, that alone is fate. We don’t have to do things by the book, we don’t have to plan for every little detail in our lives.